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Re:Where I am today... - 2005/05/30 11:01
Eden wrote:
Now I wish I had just 'drifted away' - then my friends would still smile and say hello and it would be easier on my wife and kids.
My point is, this is your discovery - and IMO there is no need to freak out your family and freinds. IMO, DFing or DAing is an unnecessary seperation. One thing that hasn't changed even though my perception has, is the thought of LOVE; love of God and brother. Keep that as your guide in your relationships.
Now I see things differently, and I accept and trust that each of us understands the truth as we percieve it until we percieve it differently.
Eden
Don't feel too bad ... I drifted away ... and it made little difference ... I was dropped like the proverbial potatoe ... fling shame ... but I did manage to save a lot of direct conflict ... which I regard as a good thing ... (not conflict ... the avoidance thereof!)
I just wanted to say how much I agree with the thought ... Love is the thing which should guide our relationships ...
And even if love is not shown to us ... we can follow the example of Jesus ... who forgave ... whos manner of death demonstrated that attack is never justified ... but showed by example ... what love is ...
philia ... Evening
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